I am a purist of sorts & believe spanking should be mostly for punishment/discipline, or to help the spankee maybe unload or get rid of any pent up emotions, or thoughts, or bad feelings, or for bad behaviours, or bad habits. Whereas lectures, scoldings and such are and should be also a focal point of the whole experience, before, during and after the actual spanking session. Being made to strip down for the spanking, or being stripped down by the spanker for the spanking, also having the spanking slowly play out starting fully clothed, going down to underwear, going down to the bare bottom, then if needed or wanted by the spanker being stripped down completely naked to finish off the spanking/punishment/discipline session, Also the use of intermittent corner times and other various positions and more domestic discipline implements besides otk and hand for the spanking.
I am very much a "Little" boy (age 2 - 6+) at heart, looking for that right Mommy, and/or Daddy to take me under their wings and love and care for me as only a Mommy and/or Daddy could, but also discipline/punish me as any naughty little boy should be disciplined/punished, with a variety of, spankings, scolding, lectures, written lines/essays, corner time, time outs, mouth soapings, enemas, temp takings (in my bum), and any other discipline/punishment a loving, caring Mommy, and/or Daddy would administer on a naughty little boy.