A life long, late 50's, non-extreme spanker, realism and good conversation is a must, where the journey is as good as the destination! Themes I like are school / uncle / daddy with like minded adults. Or just general chat about this wonderful kink we have. If we do role-play, then take time to get this right by spending time chatting first, exploring a scene can be just as good as playing it. If the above is something that interests you... then say hi, Thanks