Lifelong spanko who buried my childhood orientation at puberty and spanked every gf I ever had til middle-age, when I "came out" and have pursued a boyish sub spankee lifestyle in private, while remaining an Alpha Male in public.
Now that the NYC is "opening up" from the long Lock Down, I am refreshing my profile after many months of isolated reflection and study.

This is not my first rodeo. I have enough experience with Femdom kink, in the scene and private relationships, to know where my bliss will be found, and it is in making another’s life blissful - hopefully.

I am an honest and honorable man, with a good heart and varied intellectual interests. While I am open to dating or a “play partner” I am seeking a genuine connection and chemistry with the woman worthy of my devotion, who isn't too far from 50 - e. g. I've no interest in someone young enough to be my daughter.

Ideally, we will present to the outside world a well-adjusted happy couple, with nobody guessing what happens behind the closed doors where a Domme F / sub male bedroom and “woodshed” are the bedrock and pillars of a profound relationship forged in mutual trust and commitment, bonded by the ever-deepening private intimacy, reconfirmed and revitalized though the rites and rituals known to none but ourselves, clarifying the enlightened mind, purifying the ecstatic soul, and embodied in the flesh through the crucible of the cane and the communion of cunnilingus.

Whatever other things She Who Must Be Obeyed truly loves or wants to explore shall be what they shall be.