Crossdresser interested in real life discipline spanking from an older spanker. I find it useful to be told off and put in my place and then put otk for a hand and hairbrush spanking.
For me spanking is about discipline. I don't want it to be fun. I want to feel regret for being the position I am in. My ideal spanker is someone who knows the difference between a hard spanking and a beating; someone who understands what it means to be disciplined.