r/l dd experience for 30+ years. Normal person who is a spankee only and has domestic discipline in my life. My ideal partner is a man who is stable. Emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially stable (and I mean stable and not a sugar daddy or anything). A man who recognizes I have a brain and more than capable of taking care of myself and others. But who also recognizes my loyalty, kindness, caring, respect, determination, stubbornness, and honesty. A man who only asks for the same respect he is willing to give. A man who knows this is OUR home, our rules, our way. I am just giving him all my trust and love to make the decisions in certain situations.