Happily married, and for a while, hubby would not spank me. After an amazing talk, he finally decided that my bottom needed some red, and he is happy to do it. He likes that I show his work in here and looks for more suggestions. Anal discipline is also big in our relationship, so feel free to add ideas! I also would like to explore spanking females. If you are into directed self-spanking and perhaps some anal accountability feel free to contact me!