I am a 52 year old male in the service of my 49 year old strict wife. Well, sometimes.
She is often reluctant to assume the role, but when she does, her wraith can be heard and felt through every inch of my being. I would love to chat to other couples, strict wives or husbands in similar, or well established FLR relationships. Maybe I can figure out how to empower my wife to take this role as seriously as I take my submission to her lead