In to giving my wife spankings from mild to moderately hard (depending on her mood) and receiving severe spankings from my wife. I am a gentle hearted loving, caring devoted husband and father of three. Nobody would suspect me of being into extremely hard core spanking. It is my only kink and I have been into it for as long as I can remember, even since before I knew what sex was, I knew I wanted to be spanked by non-related girls and that I wanted to spank them. My wife regularly canes me and sometimes indulges me by allowing me to moderately spank her usually with my bare hand, sometimes with a hair brush. She administers a pretty hard caning, at least for what most people who are into it would consider to be a hard caning, but my threshold for receiving an ass whipping is much higher than her threshold of delivering one. I don’t know where my spanking pain threshold is, because I have a very high tolerance for spanking related pain. I am a wuss about any other kind of pain. Years ago back when I was in my early 20’s I had a Cougar “friend with benefits” who was into giving very severe canings and whippings. I kept begging her to give me the most severe punishment she could possibly give. She got tired of hearing me go on and on about how badly I needed it, so she decided that she would give me what I was asking for and “make me regret it”. Needless to say I didn’t regret it at all. After about an hour of intense thrashing she gave up. She had a magnificent ass too. I should’ve made a deal with her that if she couldn’t break me then I would get to whip her ass. But then 23-year-old me was just happy to be getting some action from a really hot 35-year-old. It was considerably more painful when she beat my ass the next time we got together two days later and really tried to make me beg. Of course she opened the session with “ As soon as my cane cracks across your ass the first time, you’ll finally regret getting what you asked for.“ I won’t lie, it hurt so bad that I yelped a couple times but I refused to give in. I usually just grit my teeth and sometimes grunted. She was frustrated and impressed at the same time. She told me that she had given me much more than what most other people would have been reduced to tears with. So that’s my kink. I think I used all my Kink points on spanking because I’m really not much into anything else. My wife likes nipple play so I do that for her but I only do it because it pleases her. It turns me on because of the reaction I get from her when I do it for her.