Hi all...I am a Spankee who has been in and out to the scene for quite some time...I am seeking a Disciplinarian who is no nonsense but safe, sane and experienced. I seek someone who is older than I am (late 40's to 70's) and that I can connect with mentally and emotionally, someone I can talk to in time as we get to know each other. I seek someone who will be on the same level as me and not try to turn it to something that is not meant for both of us. I am not seeking a disciplinarian who is seeking to punish for the sake of punishing for their own pleasure. I am not looking for a control freak who looks to follow my every move day and night..I am not seeking anyone I have to report to on a daily basis. I am also not seeking anything sexual. I do seek a caring disciplinarian who seeks to help me with many aspects of life and that can be discussed upon getting to know each other. I have received different types of spankings that were from mild to more severe for different reasons that can be discussed with someone I feel is real and with whom l have connection with. I am not seeking to rush into anything because that doesnt work when you are looking to really connect with someone who understands this lifestyle..I am a spankee and only a spankee so anyone who is both please understand im not one who can help you with whatever you seek. I am willing to chat but only to people who are real and not here looking to play or to hear stories. I also dont want to receive PM's from anyone telling me wish you were closer and what you would do if you were here with me...that just doesnt work for me. I dont want PM's from people who already contacted me before to ask me if I found someone especially the ones who are from others states, you dont need to know and I wouldnt be here if I have found that person! I am not here to be in a chatroom for any type of drama...I am simply here to find that connection with that one person..last but not least I am not seeking any disciplinarian that is involving other relationships of any kind with others and not seeking for either of us to travel for hours. If you like what you have read in my profile feel free to say hi.