I am a switch but prefer to be spanked. I am "in charge" in my every day life and crave the release when submitting to a spanking. Spanking is definitely for of a mental state; the embarrassment of submitting, the humiliation of being bared and put into position. OK the sting of the spank. Then the humbling of corner time. My favorite scenes involve being spanked in front of others.
Giving spankings comes naturally. I know how helpful spankings are to me and know they can be used to help naughty girls behave. I like to give traditional OTK, bare bottom spankings with hand, wooden spoon or brush.
Looking forward to making new spanko friends and keeping in touch with those I already know.