I am going to put this out so it is the first thing anyone sees - I am a single mom to a 12 yr old. No, I am not really in a position to just up and move in with you at this stage in my life because of this fact. In fact, I can't even really move until he graduates unless you are going to pay for his private school bill, as his bill is being covered partially through an education assistance grant. I work full time in the healthcare field, so my schedule is a bit like a complex math equation, but it also means I have more days off than most people. I would like to find someone willing to have a relationship that is more than just online. I don't mind online friends, but when it comes to the lifestyle, I am just more of an in-person type person, call me old fashioned, I don't care. I am fun, outgoing once you get to know me, curious by nature, always looking for something to do and while my "experience resume" isn't very long (by choice), trust me I like to research and am obsessed with getting it right. I am a whole picture type person and know that life exists outside this website. When I was first looking into this in my 20s, I thought otherwise, but then life happened. I know myself, I know I need some help in some areas, but I also have the personality where sometimes I just want to say no just to say no and see what happens (or because I want to tease and have a little fun). Not exactly the little girl type, as I am not heavily into coloring or teddy bears and stuff like that (although I am crafty and have a nostalgic collection), but I can be bratty given the right mood and yes, I do respond well to some of those "little girl tactics" you doms like to employ. However, I do also have a need for a large variety of other things too. My biggest thing is that I am not good online and more so need to have someone physically available to me...I just mentally can't psych myself up to doing certain things to myself and I don't really get much out of cyber anyway. I am just a tactile learner. I am not saying I am a mess, cus I am not by any means...I am very successful at work, own my own car and house and am virtually debt free with a 12 yr old (try doing that as a single parent with a kid in private school). I just know me, know what I need and know what I like (for the most part...still lots to explore and try, this world is endless due to creativity afterall). Waiting4sanity1@gmail.com