I'm a Viking, who happens to also be a hedonist/sadist/spanko top. That essentially means that I have a fetish for giving spankings that are painful, but only to those who enjoy the pain.
I am in a polyamorous marriage, and while she does not share my fetish, she is super supportive of my indulging; so supportive, in fact, that she now hosts an annual spanking party, just for me.
I'm here, first and foremost, to make friends. If I happen to find play partners (cyber or irl), that would be double plus good, but making more friends is still plus good.