I am an older dad in the USA who enjoys amiable, intelligent chat, role play, and stories about spankings given or received. I have been online in this milieu for 26 years, starting with aol. I am straight and have spanked a good number of ladies I first met there. I have also had a couple of spankings from women and men and will chat about most anything. I am an active and, I think, pretty good role player. As such, I always observe a partner’s general desires and limitations but I am not a fan of “topping from the bottom.” I prefer fantasies that could actually happen and value the lead-up and follow-up as much as the main event. If we chat, please indicate If something goes awry by giving a cue or just saying something rather than ruining a potential friendship.