I'm just a chill guy who loves to have fun. I watch anime from Naruto/Shippuden, Bleach, Dragon Ball Z, My Hero Academia, Yugioh, Cardfight Vanguard, Yu Yu Hakusho, Inuyasha, Welcome to Demon School Iruma-kun, The Eminence in Shadow and a few other animes. Music wise, I love rock music, J-pop to J-rock and I love to listen to video game OSTs. I also like to sketch and paint. In terms of spankings, I'm pretty well quipped in the business of it for 6 years and spanked people ages 18 and up. Though, the true first time I spanked someone was in high school when someone (a bratty friend) didn't believe I would go through with it so I proved her wrong. Since then, I had a long interest in spankings, just giving them, whether it was to correct bad behavior or just to help someone help in a "therapeutic sense". Although I haven't spanked someone in person/real life in quite some time, I'm fine with giving self-spanking instructions. True, self-spanking is not the same as having someone give it to you in person, but it still gets the job done and can fill that void in the time being. The point is, it's to help with someone with their problems. So as long as the problem gets solved, I feel that's what's important. That's not to undermine having a bonding experience with someone in person ofc... Tools/Implements I like to use are the hairbrush, bathbrush, wooden and silicone spoons, belt, switch and spanking straps. Types of spankings I like are mostly OTK but I like diaper positions ones, ones done over furniture, outside/public spankings, humiliating spankings which are ones done in front of people or for additional humiliation; giving them a wedgie with the spanking, bedtime spankings and maintenance spankings. Spankings are a process for me. I don't do what others tend to do. Firstly, there's scolding. Always, always scold them. Lecture them on their "crime"/poor behavior or misdeed have you. Make them feel guilty and feel like a naughty little girl (that they are). It might seem harsh but it's tough love that they need in order to grow into a better person. Then comes the spanking. I like to start with them being clothed and doing a warm. I don't count spanks... Counting spanks doesn't seem proper to me. It's my belief spankings should be done by the minute. So warm them up and them strip them down while continuing their spanking. Include more scolding in between the spanking too. Then when finished with the discipline (which should take roughly a half hour in my eyes, nothing too overly long to hurt them or too short so the punishment doesn't get the point across), let them know that they're still loved and are forgiven for what they done. Aftercare is just as important as correcting their behavior so cuddle them. After cuddling them, conclude their discipline by putting them in timeout. Cornertime is another good way of having them think over their actions so they won't do it again. The nature of spanking is quite fascinating. True, it can be means of getting a woman wet in bed but it's real purpose is to correct problems and help people. And since I'm helper, I'm quite fond of that fact. People's lives change for the better once they have their seats heated up, if you get that. Also, spankings are just fun to me. Not in the sexual sense but just for the "scene". Scolding the spankee, making them ask for a spanking and having them say they deserve it, dressing them up (to fit the spanking scenario) possibly, making them get the spanking tool/implement, getting them over the knee and spanking them, slowly stripping them down till their naked, watching them squirm while they plead for forgiveness and watching their bottoms blush like a rosy face. It's all mentally pleasing to me and it's just something I enjoy. In addition, spankings are great stress-relievers for both parties. Maybe the spanker was having a bad/hard day, a good old fashioned spanking can cure that and helps them improve themselves as well as build confidence. As for the spankee, they could be overwhelm with life or dealing with some sort of sadness/depression. A good cry from a hard spanking can let them spill those pent up feelings out. Then a sweet embrace and cuddle for a while to let them melt into a puddle of freedom and relaxation. I've spanked only four people in person for various reasons between laziness, brattiness, speeding tickets and it goes on. The rest I've done was over the internet, teaching them how to self-spank. I am Spanker, Daddy, Dom and Disciplinarian... I have experienced both worlds of BDSM and DDLG. I'm content with both. Guess in terms of what I want/looking for... Females to spank (irl and virtual) and start a domestic discipline relationship