Hi guys. I'm Mona 40 yrs old from Canada. My husband and I have been married 14 years now. My spanking journey started with him. While we were dating, he expressed his interests in being spanked with utmost nervousness with respect to what my response would be, but to much of his surprise and perhaps a little to my own as well, I was willing to experiment with him. Initially, I just wanted to make him happy but after I tried it, I found it made myself happy too. Let me be clear in that he is not my submissive nor am I a 24/7 dominant. However, I do spank him, quite hard, with somewhat creative reasons or even for trivial issues in our every day life. The entire activity is quite a rewarding and bonding experience for us. It does help his behavior albeit that's not always the intention of our spankings. We view it as more or less a very extended version of foreplay which gives pleasure to both of us.

That said, I do have a certain authority over him in the sense that when I give a certain "look", he knows to shut up and perhaps the next words out of his mouth ought to be a very sincere "Yes , ma'am" .

Coming to the spankings itself, while they may not always be for discipline, the intensity is still quite hard and very "real". Neither of us are interested in a prolonged love tap session , hence there is often a well reddened bottom and in fact, even a few tears shed by the end of a good session.

Now, I'm just here to chat with other like minded people to learn from their experiences and share mine. This must go without saying but I'll add it anyway, I do not involve in discussions about spanking of minors. If you were spanked as a minor and thus began your spanko interests, you can just say " I was spanked growing up and got my interest from there". I absolutely do not want to hear anything more about your past experiences as a minor regarding to who spanked you or how , it disgusts me since as mentioned above, I view it as a foreplay or perhaps even real discipline between consenting adults only.