I have had the spanking kink since my schooldays and although it was problematic in the past (particularly pre-internet!) I wouldn't be without it now - I've had pleasures I would never otherwise have experienced and met people whose paths I would never otherwise have crossed.

I particularly love the intimacy of OTK bare bottom spanking. Hand is my favourite but I also like using straps and paddles. If my partner is agreeable I like to finish off with a few strokes of the cane.

I also love the after care - massaging soothing lotion into a well chastised bottom.

As well as real life action I also enjoy reading and writing spanking fiction.

As well as spanking I enjoy watching TV box sets, playing cards and having a drink with friends.