This thoughtful but hopeful presentation comes with a great deal of scepticism because I would say that I am in a somewhat unusual situation. But perhaps its more common than I know. Please help me in determining whether what I am interested in is truly available. Im a married guy who loves family and what marriage has to offer. I have no intention in getting divorced, BUT I realize that something is missing for me, and has been for a long time. Ive realized from chatting with many connections on this site that I may be in the wrong lifestyle and theres no turning back. You see, I have insatiable desires to be with a submissive woman who understands what its all about be a brat and learn the rules of unquestioning obedience. I do not have that in my marriage and in fact, Im not disciplining at all. Its something that I need. If you have become incorrigible with no rules or boundaries and would like to meet someone who will make those rules and express gratitude her with spanking, humiliation, lots and lots of corner and reflection time, and various other domestic disciplines and training, I’m the right person. As I have been reading very articulate and thought provoking profiles on Collarspace, I have come to realize that most submissive women are looking for a long term relationship in the lifestyle I am seeking. That puts me at a distinct disadvantage, because I cannot accommodate either, But, I completely understand. However, my search will continue for someone who understands my situation and embraces it to allow for mutually satisfying encounters. I am sure that what I am looking for -a no strings attached submissive- is rare, however, I am willing to post to see what like minded woman is out there.

I am easy going, educated, motivated, have a flexible schedule and wiling to travel. I enjoy all aspects of spanking, ass play, obedience and those willing to please.