I genuinely enjoy understanding a spankee’s own needs and then making sure we resonate properly. I’m a disciplinarian, but absolutely enjoy the erotic side too. I am comfortable with a traditional otk by hand, or for those that prefer more edgy, I'm equally comfortable using a cane. I’ve lots of real-time experience over many years. Tell me what you like because knowing it’s mutual is where my pleasure comes from. Please don’t be shy. I wont be shocked or surprised by anything you tell me and I never judge.