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culnuerose
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   Posted 12/18/2008 2:54 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Spankings weren't commonplace in my home. Not as much as the threat of one was. The reason the threat almost always worked was that the spanking was always memorable. They were sudden and terrible, like a tornado: it was over in about 15 seconds and you felt its effects all day. It was also frightening. When my mother no longer had the patience to reason, scold, threaten, she would be a furious force. Usually the spanking occured right then and there, pulled over her lap or bent over whatever was nearby. The bottom was bared or partially bared--and fury was wrought. If there was something to spank with nearby, lookout, but if there wasn't, you could bet my mother's worn and calloused hand could effectively do the trick.

This wasn't so with the last spanking I ever got, unusually, not by my mother.

When I was twelve years old I was sent to stay with my Aunt and her lady friend(obviously we weren't open enough at that time to openly call her a Lesbian) She had had "friends" before, but this one we had known for a good two years and was easily the closest to all of us. They were both in their mid-40's and had a softness to their character and personalities that they retain to this day. They're really nice people.

My parents went on a trip by themselves for a week during the summer and I, being the youngest and unable to stay at home by myself was sent to my Aunt's house in the mountains of California/Nevada in a smallish town with very little to do but roam around, climb trees, and hopefully find a few other kids to play with. Thankfully I did. Unfortunately it would be the cause of my final, most unusual and most memorable punishment.

I was out late knowing full well that I had a curfew of 9:30 or so, knowing full well that the lengths I was exploring around this lake with my new friends, that I would only make it back by 10:30 or so if I was nimble.

I got home unsure as to what to expect. When I walked in the door I was greeted with a clearly shaken Aunt, her friend also with a grave look of worry. They scolded me, but mostly I felt terrible by the look of worry on their faces: as they had been so worried that they were about to call the cops, my mother, the army, and anyone else that would have got me in even more trouble than I already was. Thankfully, the scolding soon subsided, they made me something to eat and sat with me and talked to me some more about the importance of keeping curfew in a nice-non-judgemental way. After a few minutes they told me to get ready for bed, which I did immediately, thanking my lucky stars that I had such nice aunts.

When I was in bed, my Aunt timidly knocked and came to sit on my bed to talk. She reiterated how scared she was, and I reiterated my firmest apologies. She then told me that she had talked it over with "Peggy"(her friend) and they had decided I needed some punishment. She gave me the choice: Either they tell my parents about this...or they would not mention it this time, and they would punish me themselves.

The choice was very simple. Keep in mind that my mother with a premeditated reason to punish me, would most likely kill me, even if it wasn't a very hard spanking---I would probably have no allowance and few priviledges for a good month or so.

I slept like a baby--still thanking my lucky stars. Just before I fell asleep, the thought wandered through my head : "She didn't say how she was going to punish me? What could she possibly do? " I had a moment of fear suddenly, that gripped my heart...would Peggie be involved, but then I was so tired I fell asleep.

The next morning, I awoke, in my pj's (yeah I still wore pjs) and got some cereal, said hi to Peggie, found out my Aunt was out getting groceries. I ate and read the funnies, and then played my game-boy in my room for a while(Paper-boy as I recall)

Then I heard my name being beckoned. That chill in my heart was felt again. I walked in to the living room where my aunt and Peggie were. There was a chair in the middle of the room, my aunt sitting in it. Peggie was sitting across the room on the couch, flippin through a magazine.

(What was going on?)

"Its time for your punishment" she said. I froze. "oh" "okay" I stammered: "whuh what is my punishment" "You're getting a spanking" my aunt said in what must have been either her real "Stern-voice" or one that she laced with Irony--- I was too terrified to tell. Terrified, yes I was terrified. More than I had ever been with my mother. Although I doubted that my Aunt was going to inflict much pain--- a new factor had just been introduced: Embarassment. I could feel my face already getting beet red.

"Come over then" she said. I ambled over, almost trembling. She grabbed my wrist---and I felt a warmth in her hand---a sweatiness? Was she nervous as well? She layed me down over her lap--facing Peggie! I didn't dare look at her---if I crossed Peggies' eyes I'd never be able to look at her again. My aunt---in the most timid way possible, then proceeded to tug my elastic band pyjamas down--over my crack--down to my knees--------

Complete chill---complete bareness---I was bare---in front of my aunt----I was 12(just turned) and Peggie was there---and oh oh my god, the front door was open---what if one of my friends came by! I could feel both sets of cheeks becoming red with fire---and my spanking hadn't even started.

It was, by comparison to the ones I'm used to, and in relativity to the embarassment I felt---the longest spanking in recorded history of mankind. In actuality it must have lasted a minute and some change--but it felt more like an hour.

My aunt didn't speak a word. She was silent---complete opposite of her sister. She spanked me---regularly, almost at a rythm at some points---she alternated in almost a robotic fashion between my cheeks. She even took a few slaps at the middle of my butt---had she never spanked anyone? Was this a new experience for her? At the time none of these thoughts were in my head-----I was frozen---the spanks started stinging after a while---but they didn't realy hurt---I felt numb with fear----

At one point I looked up glazingly at Peggie---I caught her looking at me---she averted her gaze and kept reading whatever magazine she was reading. I felt so embarassed...and around that time---I felt a new sensation.

I had had erections around that time...puberty was slowly creeping--though not completely overwhelming me yet. I had erections occasionally...and I played with myself as all of us do...but I'd never been aroused by the context of something...and the thought of Peggie watching me be spanked---was arousing? Or was my penis so frightened it was calcifying?

When my aunt stopped spanking---she said: "Alright, I hope you learned your lesson" to which--I darted faster off her lap---and in the most awkward and speedy fashion---pulled up my pjs---hoping to God they wouldn't see my penis----oh god----please let Peggie's eyes be ensconsced in her magazine...

I went to my room---and stayed in there for a good hour more than I usually do. The rest of the vacation was fine...but I had a hard time processing what had happened I think. I was very very obediant. I think I even did some chores I didn't have to. The spanking didn't hurt at all... I was just really really afraid of having any kind of this embarassment repeated.

Later on, when I was back at my family home, I'd find myself thinking about the spanking...and sure enough...as I was laying in the bed----the memories, the sensations--would creep from my belly--into my underwear...

So it started...
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   Posted 12/18/2008 6:59 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Does anyone else just love the irony that this would show up right next to Shay's thread?


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   Posted 12/18/2008 8:08 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

Taj I agree. Im just so happy that shays grounded right now

I bet this story stays groan


 

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   Posted 12/18/2008 9:11 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
You know, this site was originally called Spanking Memories. That was the entire original point and content of the site when I found it years and years ago. I remember back then some of the stories sickened me, particularly one where some guy described what was I would hope clearly a wild harsh fantasy claiming he'd been whipped until blood was running down his legs as a child. That sort of thing bothered me, things that were obviously made up or written just to exploit fantasies about spanking/beating children bothered me too. But they have been around since the beginning.

On the other hand, acknowledging that our spanking kink (for the vast majority) did not just suddenly develop at age 18 with a loving consenting adult partner and that we did fantasize about it as children, while at the same time feeling very embarrassed and wanting to hide it from the adults around us who were not trying to take any sexual advantage of us but just doing things the old fashioned way...it's reality, in fact it is perfectly healthy for an adolescent to be a sexual being, we all were whether we acknowledged it or not. The memories of how this kink developed for us is for many a deep part of our sexuality and since this is an adult fetish site I think we are allowed to talk about our sexuality... This poster is now an adult member here, who is active on the discussion boards an has been making things a little more interesting by adding a new voice and not a freaky weirdo type voice. He was relating a story about his own experience, not a fantasy about some child. A spanking memory, a "real life story" told with honesty. Can't we see the difference? Yeah I could have done without hearing that he had an erection, but it's not like he said that he wanted anything to do with the Aunt who spanked him and she certainly didn't if she was a lesbian either.

We can attack anyone who posts something that does not go along with our tastes and have this end up being an extremely boring place with "discussions" between only a few agreeing friends, or we can accept that spanking for some people is different than it is for us and have a more active diverse community. Maybe try to imagine that some people enjoy spanking memory stories and MAYBE they (I would dare say most if not all who come here) do not enjoy them for any unsavory reason but simply because they like spanking and they like remembering how it started! Sorry, I have tried to be patient and fair but I am just getting really tired of having to fight with both sides on this issue, to the ones who don't like childhood spanking stories...for god's sake stop reading them, they usually indicate what they are about in the title as did this one! To those who DO post anything about pedophilia or incest, obviously that won't be tolerated. But to say spanking turned you on as a kid is not a crime or most of us would be criminals. Spanking turned me on when I was a kid, spanking still turns me on and spanking will always turn me on, not always when I am spanked does it include sexual activity, but it is and always has been a turn on. I accept that it is not sexual for some, but those who feel that way must in turn accept that for many of us this stuff was a really big part of our current spanko selves and something we enjoy reminiscing about. Ok end of rant.


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   Posted 12/18/2008 10:01 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
hey, the naughty boy gets a spanking. nothing brutal, just a spanking. He's a lucky kid to have someone care enough to teach him to behave. If they were beating him with a belt until his backside is purple that's another story. I see nothing wrong with a loving spanking on a little boys bottom.
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   Posted 12/18/2008 10:17 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
domdomdom said...
hey, the naughty boy gets a spanking. nothing brutal, just a spanking. He's a lucky kid to have someone care enough to teach him to behave. If they were beating him with a belt until his backside is purple that's another story. I see nothing wrong with a loving spanking on a little boys bottom.


I'm pretty sure that the complaining comments (or comment, as I'm not sure if Taj was complaining or just pointing out irony) are related to the fact that he admitted that it turned him on...either way nice to know I'm not the only one who felt that this was not over the line.


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   Posted 12/18/2008 10:26 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Thank you Lily

You explained it well and I have to agree with what you said with the critique of the post and the deeper meanings and feelings from our childhood experiences.

Something that involves incest or brutality towards children or is obviously written in an attempt to arouse perverts should be removed.

By all means, do monitor the threads and remove what is inappropriate or cause legal problems to the site.

But this constant picking apart of R/L posts and the beating to death the issue of spanking children is one of several reasons that some members are leaving this site.

The title was descriptive enough. It should be fair warning to those here that if you may not like it, don't read it!


Edited for spelling


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   Posted 12/18/2008 10:52 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
R.E. said...
Thank you Lily

You explained it well and I have to agree with what you said with the critique of the post and the deeper meanings and feelings from our childhood experiences.

Something that involves incest or brutality towards children or is obviously written in an attempt to arouse perverts should be removed.

By all means, do monitor the threads and remove what is inappropriate or cause legal problems to the site.

But this constant picking apart of R/L posts and the beating to death the issue of spanking children is one of several reasons that some members are leaving this site.

The title was descriptive enough. It should be fair warning to those here that if you may not like it, don't read it!


Edited for spelling


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   Posted 12/18/2008 12:57 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
The only complaint I see in my post which would be the only other one in the begining other than tajs.
I groaned. Trust me if I were to complain the whole site would know it.
People need to open their eyes more and not be pointing fingers in the wrong direction. Or could it possibly be that they were thinking the same groan as me.
 
This is my original post. No harm no foul or is there.

Taj I agree. Im just so happy that shays grounded right now

I bet this story stays groan


 

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   Posted 12/18/2008 1:01 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Lily said...
domdomdom said...
hey, the naughty boy gets a spanking. nothing brutal, just a spanking. He's a lucky kid to have someone care enough to teach him to behave. If they were beating him with a belt until his backside is purple that's another story. I see nothing wrong with a loving spanking on a little boys bottom.


I'm pretty sure that the complaining comments (or comment, as I'm not sure if Taj was complaining or just pointing out irony) are related to the fact that he admitted that it turned him on...either way nice to know I'm not the only one who felt that this was not over the line.

Well Id like to know where my complaint is other than a groan. whatever


 

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   Posted 12/18/2008 1:14 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I know I've been a spanko since a small child. I played spanking games with friends as a child and on several occasions I misbehaved knowing I would be spanked. I don't see a problem with writing or reading about these things. Sean has already stated this is acceptable here. There are sites that do not allow this. Just my 2 cents anyway.


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   Posted 12/18/2008 1:35 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
bottomred said...
Well Id like to know where my complaint is other than a groan. whatever


Saying "I bet this story stays" followed by a groan seemed to me to indicate that you felt that the moderator was allowing things to remain which were unacceptable. If that isn't what you meant, I can't imagine what it did mean. Do you normally groan about something when you are content or when you are complaining? *sigh*


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   Posted 12/18/2008 2:59 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Lily said...
bottomred said...
Well Id like to know where my complaint is other than a groan. whatever


Saying "I bet this story stays" followed by a groan seemed to me to indicate that you felt that the moderator was allowing things to remain which were unacceptable. If that isn't what you meant, I can't imagine what it did mean. Do you normally groan about something when you are content or when you are complaining? *sigh*
 
I would have pmed you if that were the case. Or I would have just come right out and said that I never did say that nor do I feel I implied it. Sorry if it offended you.
 
I said it out of pure frustration not anger. And the groan is just my sigh. 
 


 

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   Posted 12/18/2008 3:29 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Lily said...
. . . (or comment, as I'm not sure if Taj was complaining or just pointing out irony) . . .


Yep, just pointing out the irony. I love irony, frankly - and what's more ironic than a 2-3 page debate over sexual content in stories involving minors in disciplinary contexts, next to a memory of something that was a sexual awakening for a minor being disciplinary spanked by his aunt?

For my part, I suppose I see a difference between memories and fiction; maybe it's that the truth is some kind of absolute defense. Years back, under a different screen-name, I actually posted my first erotic spanking experience, which involved 18 year old me, and my then 16 year old girlfriend. That was our reality, not some fantasy, and I didn't feel at all ashamed/guilty to share it (anonymously) here. I guess with the memory, we're sharing a kernel of when we became aware of our kink; fiction, on the other hand, is meant to entertain, and it is somewhat exploitative (and possibly illegal) to portray minors in sexual situations for the gratification of what should be a purely adult audience.

So, yeah, not really a complaint if it's really his experience - but it was just too rich not to comment.

-Taj


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   Posted 12/18/2008 3:30 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I thought this was a well written, very genuine childhood memory about how the kink started. Let's face it those of us who are into ttwd often explore the reasons why and this memory does this in a charming manner which is not at all offensive, it's honest and from the heart.
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   Posted 12/18/2008 3:44 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Wow---interesting that I caused all this debate.

I'll know for future posts that some people find the terms "erection" or "Calcifying" as I put it---distasteful or rather--not to their liking. I simply was trying to be honest. I wasn't trying to describe anything graphic as that wasn't the point of the story. It wasn't meant to excite anyone and I hoped that my writing style wouldn't provoke.

Just trying to recall my experience.

Glad most of you seemed to enjoy it.
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   Posted 12/20/2008 6:18 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
culnuerose said...
Wow---interesting that I caused all this debate.

I'll know for future posts that some people find the terms "erection" or "Calcifying" as I put it---distasteful or rather--not to their liking. I simply was trying to be honest. I wasn't trying to describe anything graphic as that wasn't the point of the story. It wasn't meant to excite anyone and I hoped that my writing style wouldn't provoke.

Just trying to recall my experience.

Glad most of you seemed to enjoy it.
Timing is everything!
 
Thanks to norty and lily I can at least tell this story is different from those meant to tintillate etc (well mostly I can, sorry it takes time)
 
I never felt those feelings as a young person or teen EVER, so it is difficult for me to imagine these thiings happening.
 
If my son was to feel this way, I wouldn' think him bad at all, but I would discourage activity that drove him to act too old for his age etc.
 
It can be difficult to know the difference.  I'm trying to think how I would view the stories if I had felt something way back when, but it is just impossible for me to know that.
 
As is, I'm so glad that graphic, overtly sexual activities with minors is removed, and stories like these are for the tastes of others who have 'memories' that can understand better.
 
I feel sorry for that 12 year old..how strange and confused you must have felt with no one to talk to about it!.


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   Posted 12/20/2008 6:33 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
*hugs shay* Welcome back. :-)


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   Posted 12/21/2008 6:29 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Heya---

I understand for those whose spanking "fetish" or whatever you want to call it---"attachment" was not rooted or existent in childhood that this story is not for them. I'm not quite sure how to forwarn that there will be allusions to sexuality---I'd say I know for next time---but I don't really have any other stories---so you that do not care for such allusion will be rid of me! Only joking.

I don't think it was confusing until I got older. My sexuality was kind of a scary thing---but it didn't feel in a bad way----I kind of just went with it---kind of like kids and teens do---you deal with all that life throws at you. It was only when I was older and I started craving psuedo-nostalgically a spanking from an older lady that I though: "Am I f-d up?"

For some reason it was a simpler time...
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   Posted 12/21/2008 11:51 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Oh I thought I was crazy as a kid lol...


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apparently not? drink
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   Posted 12/22/2008 5:10 AM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Yeah, I've come to appreciate my spankoness now! Still might be crazy, but at least I'm not alone. ;-)


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I enjoyed the story. Thanks for sharing it.

I grew up in a home where we got spanked, and some kids around the neighborhood, as well. I was a spanko from an early age, and anything about spanking got my avid attention. I wasn't aroused getting spanked, or by family members getting it, but other kids, especially girls, I was.

So that's part of who I am, and I like reading about how other adults into spanking thought about it from the beginning of their interest. It's not that they were children, and spanking children is a turn on---it's simply part of the story of being a spanko. My spankoness, if you will, is strongly associated with authority figures and discipline scenarios, and childhood is where I learned about such things. It's no more real than in those circumstances, but I'm not interested in spanking children---in fact, I'm against it, and have never and will never spank a child. It's about adults relating to those real experiences that I'm attracted to.

I liked this account because it was unique---a different twist on the kind of spanking experience that would have been extremely hard to deal with if it had been me at that age. I couldn't read the author's mind, but I didn't take it as a story that was supposed to be an erotic fantasy, or something for people who might want to spank kids. The spankings I got growing up were very difficult to deal with, especially because spanking had a different meaning to me than to most other kids. I hated the punishments, and wasn't aroused by them like in this story---and yet as an adult, I recognize the experiences as part of my development as a spanko---why I think the way I think about spanking as genuine discipline. I'm still fascinated by those experiences, and I've written accounts of my childhood because they interest me. I've always been hesitant to post those accounts for others to read, but have tried a few where it was appropriate. Some adults enjoy or can relate to stories like that, and I'm with them in saying we feel no need to apologize for it. Apparently, people who frequent this site represent different feelings about the matter, or what I think of as having different understandings of the matter. I'm not exactly sure what won't offend a lot of people here. It's safer to find sites more narrowly defined that favor spanking memory stories.

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   Posted 12/22/2008 12:08 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
vanWinkle said...

I enjoyed the story. Thanks for sharing it.

I grew up in a home where we got spanked, and some kids around the neighborhood, as well. I was a spanko from an early age, and anything about spanking got my avid attention. I wasn't aroused getting spanked, or by family members getting it, but other kids, especially girls, I was.

So that's part of who I am, and I like reading about how other adults into spanking thought about it from the beginning of their interest. It's not that they were children, and spanking children is a turn on---it's simply part of the story of being a spanko. My spankoness, if you will, is strongly associated with authority figures and discipline scenarios, and childhood is where I learned about such things. It's no more real than in those circumstances, but I'm not interested in spanking children---in fact, I'm against it, and have never and will never spank a child. It's about adults relating to those real experiences that I'm attracted to.

I liked this account because it was unique---a different twist on the kind of spanking experience that would have been extremely hard to deal with if it had been me at that age. I couldn't read the author's mind, but I didn't take it as a story that was supposed to be an erotic fantasy, or something for people who might want to spank kids. The spankings I got growing up were very difficult to deal with, especially because spanking had a different meaning to me than to most other kids. I hated the punishments, and wasn't aroused by them like in this story---and yet as an adult, I recognize the experiences as part of my development as a spanko---why I think the way I think about spanking as genuine discipline. I'm still fascinated by those experiences, and I've written accounts of my childhood because they interest me. I've always been hesitant to post those accounts for others to read, but have tried a few where it was appropriate. Some adults enjoy or can relate to stories like that, and I'm with them in saying we feel no need to apologize for it. Apparently, people who frequent this site represent different feelings about the matter, or what I think of as having different understandings of the matter. I'm not exactly sure what won't offend a lot of people here. It's safer to find sites more narrowly defined that favor spanking memory stories.

Actually, I think you're spot-on.  There are quite a few of us on this site who were spanked in childhood and whose spankoness was evident even in early childhood.  I don't recall being aroused by ANY of my childhood spankings and I also associate better with authority figures and disciplinary spankings.  When I was a kid, spanking was a part of the culture.  If you acted up, you got a swat to your rear-end.  If you misbehaved in school, you could possibly wind up in the hallway bent over grabbing your ankles for a swat with the paddle.  For ME, this is where it all started.
Was I confused by it?  Not any more than what I was confused about sex in general.  
 
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   Posted 12/22/2008 8:06 PM (GMT -7)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I have a question:
 
Even saying that childhood stories have good memories etc., what draws the line between a good memory and acknowledgment of how it affected you...and an outright fetish?  Which would be a horse of another color in respects to innocent memories etc wouldn't it?  (this is a question, not a statement)
 
If someone has a memory or two and relates it..it is a memory.
 
If someone always thinks about those "childhood" things to make the spanking part of their lives more full...then a fetish right?
 
A fetish should be a uniquely adult practice or way to think.
 
Does anyone want to explore this (without rancor or judgment)?


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