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I am a Disciplinarian
« on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 8:51pm »
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No doubt about it - I am a disciplinarian.  I’ll admit it.  I can’t help
it, I was born this way.  Some may say that I am a mean son of a bitch.  
Others, will see me for what I am - a man doing what he was born to do.  I am
strict and firm yet fair.
 
 I was born in the fifties and I guess you could say that I am old school.  
When I was growing up, spankings were the rule - not the exception.  I have
read this newsgroup and visited with many people on line.  Things sure have
changed.  When I was a kid being spanked, we damn sure didn’t have any safe
words.  I heard lots of things coming through the close doors as spankings were
being dished out.  One thing I never heard was “Red light!!!...Red
light!!!”  And as far as “warm ups” - I guess those were the licks we got
with the belt when we were slow in getting our pants down.  Those were the days
my friends.
 
 I am asked questions all the time about being a disciplinarian and a seasoned
spanker.  “Are your spankings fun?”, “Do your spankings hurt?”,  “Do
you give play type spankings?”, “You don’t really spank bare - do
you?”, “How many spanks do you give?”........   I guess it is hard for
others to understand what I mean when I say - I am a disciplinarian.
 
 I decided to take a few moments to answer some of the questions I  asked so
often.   I am sure that this will bore lots of people and will upset others.  I
am sorry if you are one of those.  Any way - here goes.
 
 I know from my reading  on the Internet that there are such things as  “fun
spankings”, “love spankings ” and even “good girl spankings”.  I
don’t know any thing about those.  What I do know about is what I call
“real” spankings.  I mean the kind they gave in the “good old days”.  
The kind I grew up with - you know - “Old Fashioned Spankings.”
 
 By the way, I am a male and in my late forties.  I can’t tell you a damn
thing about spanking men or children.  I don’t know the first thing about
that kind of stuff.  What I do know about and what I am writing about is the
spanking of women.  Not girls - women.  Age really is not important as long as
they are over eighteen.  I am a disciplinarian - not a criminal.  
 
 Many people believe that spanking is for kids.  They could not be more wrong.  
As far as I am concerned, spankings should only be given to adults - never to
children.  “I’m too old to spank.”, that is just not true.  One may grow
to big to be spanked - but never too old.  
 
 My spankings are given for one reason only - to punish.  It is true that there
 are many ways to punish a naughty woman.  Many of the punishments that were
developed and used to rear children get excellent results when used on adult
women.  Corner standing, scolding, grounding, mouth washing, line writing and
of course spanking get excellent results when properly utilized in the
correction of a misbehaving woman.
 
 Unless it is a mistake, I never punish without a damn good reason.  It would
just not be fair and I am a fair man.  It is very important that the offender
knows what the rules are and understands them completely.  They must know that
the rule has been broken and know that what they did was wrong.  They must
understand that their conduct was improper and deserving of punishment..  Being
lazy, dishonest and irresponsible lead to most of the punishments I have doled
out
 
 Rules - we all live by them and we know the results of failing to.   When
someone is in my charge, I do lay down the rules and make certain that they are
understood completely and clearly.  I always make sure that they understand
that breaking the rules will  result in punishment.
 
 I am  a firm believer in  punishment that fits the crime.  When making the
determination as to what punishment is to be delivered,  I always take into
consideration if it is a first time or a repeat offense.  I keep track of  
punishments and when I learn that one did not work - I make the appropriate
adjustments.  
 
 I believe that communication is very important.  I try to see to it that I
never involved with a  “failure to communicate”.   The rules of conduct
must be clearly communicated and before any punishment is delivered, there must
be a complete understanding of why.
 
 As I said, I utilize scolding, corner standing, grounding, mouth washing, line
writing and other such punishments along with spanking.  I have found that
spanking alone will not always get the desired results so I often couple a
spanking with some other form of discipline.
 
 I believe that a fear of the punishment is essential to the maintenance of
good and proper behavior.  As anyone who has ever been in my charge can tell
you, my punishments are indeed to be feared.  Spankings are certainly no
exception.
 
 I spank with both my hand and implements.  Like I said,  I let the punishment
fit the crime.  Over the years I have used many things to dish out the
discipline that my charges have earned.  In addition to my hand, I have used
belts, razor straps, fresh cut switches, canes, wooden spoons, paddles,
hardwood rulers and hairbrushes.  I never use whips or crops - these are for
livestock, not women!
 
 I have given hundreds of spankings over the years and to be honest, no two
have been exactly alike.  There are as many ways to give a spanking as there is
to earn one.  As they say, variety is the spice of life.  
 
 I always start a spanking with scolding.  It is very important to me that
there is a complete understanding of why the spanking is being given and how
severe that spanking is going to be.  Also, I feel that any punishment is a
private matter between me and the wrongdoer.   I deal with discipline matters
behind closed doors and no one is present except for me and the errant woman.
 
 Most of my scolding is done with me sitting and the offender standing in front
of me.  Sometimes I am at a desk and other times I am sitting at the center of
the room in a straight backed chair.  In either case,  I demand constant eye
contact and undivided attention.  She must keep her hands at her sides at all
times.  She is not allowed to say anything at all unless she is responding to a
question I have asked.  I never scream our use any abusive language of any kind
during scolding.  Nevertheless, my tone of voice, word selection and message
often results in a flood of tears.  I am a disciplinarian.
 
 During the scolding stage, I inform her of the punishment she is going to
receive.  I tell her about the spanking that  is about to be given and what is
to follow.  Begging and pleading is a problem I must often deal with.  I have
very little pertinence with such conduct.  She would do well to save her breath
and our time.  All of her pleading falls upon deaf ears.  
I have heard of “negotiations” prior to a spanking.  I can assure you that
there are no negotiations when a woman stand before me preparing to be spanked.
 
 When the pre-spanking scolding ends, it is time to get down to business.  I
always give her exactly what I have promised.  No more - no less.  The only
thing that might change what she gets is  her conduct during the spanking.  
 
 All spankings are conducted in a very ritualistic manner.  As with the
scolding, there are rules of conduct to be observed both during and after the
spanking.  In most cases, the punishment for breaking rules while being spanked
is “extras”.  
 
 I will not tolerate any back talking or sass during punishment.   I will
simply  not put up with the use of any words that are not proper for a refined
lady to use.  I expect her to do exactly as she is told without delay or
hesitation.  Disrespectful looks and words are delt with harshly.
 
 I understand that the punishments I dole out are very painful and that the
person being punished is a human being.  I expect and allow, crying, begging,
pleading, kicking twisting, bucking and panic.  Nevertheless, I will not
tolerate any attempt to stop or avoid the punishment.  Getting out of position
and putting hands back is strictly forbidden.  I have had many bottom
blistering spankings end with a sobbing woman extending her hand for licks from
the ruler as repayment for putting her hands back during her spanking.  Also,
on more than one occasion I have marched a crying woman to the sink to wash out
her mouth because of the words she used while having her butt blistered were
not ladylike.
 
 Bare bottom spankings - always?  No.  Like I said, let the punishment fit the
crime.  Is it a first offense or a repeat violation?  In may cases,  I find it
to be much more effective to end a spanking with, “Next time those panties
will be at your knees.”  then it is to give a bare bottom spanking the first
time she screwed up.   Also, to end a long and hard hand spanking with, “Next
time I’ll use my belt!!”  tends to get better results than taking a strap
to her the first time she breaks a rule of conduct.    
 
 I have spanked women to tears without ever even taking down their jeans.  Any
of them will tell you that when properly bent over, the well stretched denim
provides little protection from the well laid on swats of a school paddle or
the wrapping end of a fast moving strap.  Also, just because a spanking starts
out over jeans or other clothing, it certainly does not mean it will not end up
as a bare bottom affair.    
 
 I have found that waiting adds a certain element to a punishment spanking.  It
provides the woman with time to think about her improper conduct and the
punishment to come.  In many cases it provides me with the opportunity to calm
myself down.  I have a policy to never punish when I am angry.  Waiting is most
effective when she is by herself and in the place where her punishment will be
delivered.  I how found it very effective to leave the chosen implement in
plain view for her to observe while waiting.  Also, in most cases, the longer
the wait, the better.  
 
 The place that punishment is delivered is very important.   As I pointed out,
a spanking is always a private affair between myself and the woman  I am
punishing.  The location must provide complete privacy.  Basements, sheds and
upstairs bedrooms are my preferred choices.  As my spankings are very
ritualistic, once a location for her punishments is chosen, it is not changed.  
The implements that are used and the required furnishings are kept in the
selected location.  A hairbrush resting on the seat of a straight-backed chair
or a razor strap draped over the foot rail of the bed serves as a constant
reminder of what the room is for.
 
 As I said, I have given hundreds of spankings and no two have been alike.  I
have developed some standards I use with the various implements.  Nevertheless,
there are always variations in the punishments I dish out.  I will use the
strap as an example.
 
 Usually, when I give a strapping, the woman is face down on the bed.  On one
occasion I instructed the offender to remove all of her clothing and to take a
long and hot soaking bath.  When I ordered her out of the tub, she found me
standing by the foot of the bed with the strap in my hand.  I had already
placed a pillow on the floor for her knees and a second one at the edge of the
bed.  As I instructed her to come and stand in front of me, I let the strap
slap the side of my leg.  I made her face me and I delivered a scolding lecture
that brought tears to her eyes.  With the lecture complete, I ordered her to
kneel on the pillow and to drape herself over the foot of the bed.  The second
pillow was under her tummy and helped to present her bottom properly for
punishment.  
 
 Before starting the strapping, I instructed her to place her hands flat on the
bed.  She was made to lay her face down on the bed with her head turned to face
the side I would deliver the strapping from.   I laid down the rules which
would  govern her conduct during the strapping and waited for her
acknowledgment of understanding.  For the next ten or so minutes, the room was
filled with pistol shot like sounds, screaming, crying, scolding and promises
to be good.  The strapping ended with her standing in the corner crying her
eyes out.  Her bottom was well blistered and a few bright red stripes were
visible on her thighs.  I found it necessary to strike her on her thighs when
she broke my rule and placed her hands back to cover her bottom.  It was almost
a year before I had to punish her again.
 
 While on the subject of strapping, let me tell you about the strapping of
Julie Scott.  Julie and I had been to the rodeo.  After the event, we were at
the pickup having a beer with a few of our friends.  I don’t know what got
into her.  She back-talked and embarrassed the hell out of me.  I instantly
told our friends good by and we drove home without a word being spoken along
the way.
 
 As soon as we reached the house, I took off my belt and handed it to her.  I
instructed her to take it to our room and to wait for me.  As she was going up
the stairs I told her to stack three pillows at the center of the bed.  I
watched a movie on TV and let myself calm down before going upstairs to deal
with her.
 
 When I entered the room she was sitting on the foot of the bed.  The belt was
clutched tightly in her hands.  As instructed, she had neatly stacked the
pillows on the bed.  I reached down and took the belt from her hands and I
pulled her to her feet.  I spun her around to face me.  I questioned her about
her conduct and asked for an explanation.  When she failed to provide one,
there was nothing more to talk about.
 
 I ordered Julie to get on the bed and kneel in front of the stack of pillows.  
Once in place, I told her to push her jeans and panties down to her knees.  As
soon as she complied, I placed my hand at the back of her neck and forced her
face down over the pillows.  I instructed her to tuck her hands away under the
pillows and to not dare remove them.  I then placed my left hand at the small
of her back and let the leather do the rest of the talking.  By the time I was
finished, I had taken enough hide off of her young butt to make a new
lampshade.  Julie cried herself to sleep that night clutching a very well
spanked bottom.  She never back-talked me in front of my friends again.
 
 Like I said, I use many implements.  Sometimes my hand is all it takes to get
my point across.  I have a very big hand and it covers allot of real estate
with each blow.  Hand spankings are always given with the errant woman over my
knee.  In almost every case, my hand spankings are delivered to a completely
bare bottom.  Before starting the spanking, I let my left arm snake around her
waist and I clamp her snugly into place.  To control wild kicking and bucking,
I usually hook my right leg over the backs of her knees.
 
 I deliver hard smacks with a snap of my wrist as contact is made.  I
concentrate my efforts on the roundest part of her bottom, where her cheeks
meet her thighs and the tops of the thighs.  The licks are given with a slow
and steady cadence without pause or interruption.  I continue my scolding
throughout the punishment.  Once the frantic struggling subsides and she is
sobbing and near incoherent, the hand spanking is complete.
 
 Sometimes I have found it necessary to deliver punishment at a time and place
where noise my be a problem.  In those cases, I often decide to use a fresh cut
switch.  Whenever I am going to give a switching, I take the woman who is to be
punished and make her cut her own switch.   I do not allow her to make the
selection, that choice is mine.
 
 When I give a switching, I expect the woman to be bear from the waist down.  
The exception is jeans.  I have found that a pair of jeans bunched up around
her feet serve me well during a switching.  I give switchings with the woman
standing.  I hold her by the back of her neck, the lobe of her ear or by a hank
of her hair.  I try to keep the kisses of the switch confined to her bottom.  
Nevertheless, with the wild dancing and jumping that goes on during a switching
along the way the tip wraps and bites, her legs and thighs often become
involved.   When we are finished, she knows what it means when I say that “we
are going to go round and round young lady”.  
 
 I often use the hairbrush or ruler.   When selecting one of these for use, you
must select the right kind.  For a hairbrush, I use a heavy, flat backed, solid
wood one.  It is very large and comfortable in my hand.  The back is smooth and
well worn from use.  For a ruler, I use an 18” hardwood.  I have found one
that is very thick and holds up well to heavy use.
 
 When spanking with the hairbrush or ruler, it is always an over the knee type
affair.  Sometimes it is given bare bottom and other times over clothing.  It
all depends on what she has done and her history with the problem.  You can
give a real scorching with a hairbrush over a tight pair of jeans.  Let me tell
you about one such spanking.
 
 I found Sherry James in a bar after I had warned her about going to that
place.  I took her out and straight home.  Up until that night she had only
been spanked twice by me.  Her first spanking was a hand spanking given with
her skirt flipped up and on the seat of her panties.  The second was a bare
bottom spanking that brought her to tears.  As neither of those spanking seemed
to work, I decided it was time to introduce her to the hairbrush.
 
 I chewed her up one side and down the other.  She watched me place the
straight-backed chair at the foot of the bed and head for the dresser.  I could
see the fear in her eye as I drew the wicked looking hairbrush from its keeping
place in the dresser drawer.  As this was going to be her first hairbrush
spanking, I decided to let her keep her jeans on.  I put her over my knee and I
busted her butt for fifteen minutes.  I really laid the wood onto that rear
end.  She was screaming after the first few licks and sobbing like a child by
the time I finally let her up.  I am sure that  I had blistered every square
inch of her bottom.
 
 I marched her to the corner and left her standing there until she got some
control of herself.  After a while I returned to the spanking chair and sat
down.  I was still holding the brush in my hand.  I called her to me and made
her stand in front of me.  She was a mess!!  Her hair was twisted and tangled,
her face was tear streaked and she was still sniffing and crying.  I made her
look me in the eye and I noticed how red and bloodshot her eyes were.
 
 I held up the brush in front of her face and I told her under no uncertain
terms that if I ever had to spank her again that it would be just as hard and
just as long as the spanking that she had just gotten with one exception.  I
explained  that next time, before the spanking started, her jeans would be at
her feet and her panties inside out at her knees.
I could tell by the expression on her face that it would never be necessary to
give “that” spanking.
 
 Oh, last but not least.  School type punishments.  They worked well at school
and they work just as well at home.  I am talking about the use of the American
school paddle and the English school cane.  As with every other implement, I
use these on both bare and clothed bottoms.  It all depends on the offense and
the culprits history with the offense and punishment for it.
 
 For both of these tools of discipline, I use a sturdy wooden table.  The woman
being punished is made to stand in front of the table and bend forward at the
waist and lay herself across its top.  She is instructed to stretch forward and
firmly grasp the far side with both hands.  She is warned of the consequences
of releasing her grip or getting out of position.  
 
 When dispensing swats or cuts of the cane, no scolding is given during that
actual administration of the strokes.  All scolding is conducted before and
after the actual procedure.  In both cases however, I do require her to get up
on her tip toes to indicate her readiness for the next swat or cut to be
delivered.  Before such punishments begin, she is informed as to how many she
will receive and unless she breaks a rule while taking them, she gets no more
and no less than she was promised.  
 
 As I said at the beginning, I usually combine spanking with other forms of
punishment.  I have found that the best results are obtained by such
combinations.  I utilize corner standing after most spankings.  Also, I often
use corner sitting both before and after a spanking.  I have been know to keep
a woman sitting in a corner for up to four hours at a time.  
 
 Mouth washings have proven to be very effective when dealing with a sassy,
rude,  nasty mouth and vulgar talking woman.  I normally conduct my mouth
washings after the spankings and before the corner time begins.  In many cases
it is necessary to administer a second spanking in front of the sink.  When I
wash a mouth out, I use my fingers and plenty of soap.  I work the roof, the
sides and all around the inside of the offenders mouth.  I normally lay the
hairbrush at the side of the sink as a reminder not to bite.  I have found it
best to conduct mouth washings with the culprit completely naked.
 
 Grounding works as well with a grown woman as it does with a child.  The loss
of freedom and privileges is a basic punishment.  Nevertheless, in order to be
effective, a grounding must start with a spanking and a promise of what is in
store if the terms and conditions of the spanking are not followed to the
letter.
 
 Writing lines works well.  A weekend spent hand copying a Webster’s
dictionary makes a woman think twice before acting improperly again.  Just make
certain that when she is doing her writing or copy work that she is sitting on
a very well spanked rear end.
 
 I am,
 
 A Disciplinarian,
 
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Re: I am a Disciplinarian
« Reply #1 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 9:07pm »
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i'll have to finish this one tomorrow and ask my questions..but i do have one now?  
 
What are lines? writing lines that is?
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« Reply #2 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 9:40pm »
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Sassy; when your hubby makes you sit on your red bottom and write....."I will be a good girl from now on" 500 times.......you'll know what lines are.  Mark
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« Reply #3 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 10:09pm »
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WELL!
 
Dear Mr. McSpank, Sir,
 
What if the woman in question promised to be very very good, and never ever let that particular transgression occur again, and assured you that no discipline of any sort was the least little bit necessary....?  What if she said all this with a sweet and innocent face like this> Roll Eyes?
 
*leigh* Wink
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« Reply #4 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 10:16pm »
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So I guess a bare bottom does nothing for you..correct??
 
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on Mar 3rd, 2003, 10:16pm, tassie wrote:
So I guess a bare bottom does nothing for you..correct??
 
Tassie

 
Young lady, a bare bottom makes me see red.  
 
Sometimes red stripes.....
 
and sometimes even blisters..
 
Any more smart mouth questions??
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« Reply #6 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 10:40pm »
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As Mark should know right Wink
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« Reply #7 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 10:43pm »
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You did not answer my question. It was a reasonable question. One which warrants a decent reply.  
 
So when a woman has her bottom pointed towards the ceiling this does nothing for you! You amongst all men are able to ignore this! What a genius.
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« Reply #8 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 10:48pm »
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Tassie,
 
It does plenty for me.  And ignore it...no way.
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« Reply #9 on: Mar 3rd, 2003, 10:50pm »
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of course he can't ignore it Tassie any more than can anyone with blood flowing through their veins instead of ice water
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